While we may think that open relationships and polygamy are things that are usually confined to the younger generation, desires do not know the age limit, and this week we talk to it Stella Ralfini – A 78-year-old Reiki practitioner who left behind a monogamous lifestyle 18 years ago.
“By the age of 60, I had 3 long-term real-time relationships.
“By the end of being together, we were more like friends than lovers. I missed the intimacy and [wasn’t] How long will a relationship last? Then, I embarked on a new path without an agenda and never looked back. ”
Non-marriage is the revelation of Ralfini
Ralfini told HuffPost UK: “Every new lover is a new experience of love and intimacy that makes me feel ideal and young.
“Looking forward to seeing him again, when we next have sex, start the excitement of spontaneous romantic weekends, and since we’ve never been together long enough to achieve stalemate, we imagined, as I imagined, that’s my idea – to get myself out of the conditions and get better with every lover.”
according to Many people in the UK – The largest multi-room resource website in the UK – Polygamy may face the judgment of friends, family and colleagues, as well as the lack of understanding and acceptance of the broader society.
But for Ralfini, it wasn’t the impact she was, as she said: “I’m not affected by stigma because I don’t live my own life for others and don’t care about anyone’s thoughts.”
But, she wasn’t always so popular in her family, she revealed: “My daughter didn’t support me at first because she thought women of my age shouldn’t want sex.”
In 2021 World Health Organization (WHO) Declaring this ageism is a global challenge”, assuming that our elders still don’t enjoy healthy sex will certainly get caught up in it.
Sex and interpersonal relationship expert Miranda Christophers spoke with Huffpost UK in 2023. [as older people]. ”
Thankfully, Ralphine’s daughter has now adopted this mindset: “She has now approved my policy lifestyle because she sees me choosing to live and what makes me happy.”
Want to try to be poly? Let go of what you know
When we asked Ralfini what advice she would give to anyone who would like to embrace the Dorley lifestyle, she said: “Poly is the life of the Rolling Stones, so it’s not anyone seeking a guaranteed, firm relationship.
“There is no ownership, jealousy or insecurity. Only when someone reaches this point do they get ready for the joy of embracing [polyamory]. ”
